So for some context, I am (or at least was) in a very bad spot in my life. I have massive debt from moving to a new state for a job that hasn't gone my way, I had no social life, I envied my roomates for getting experiences I wanted and the social life I wanted, as well as numerous other things.
Here's how I changed all that. I decided to motivate myself to become a better me, a more confident me, a more healthy me. So I made myself a video on my phone for only me to see. I told my future self in that video several things.
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Watch the video every morning during my daily routine. It gets my mind right for the morning and hopefully will become a part of me.
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Take chances on everything. I wasn't confident in talking to girls but I said be bold and be honest about my intentions. Trying and failing spectacularly is better than wondering what would have happened if I tried.
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Don't take on the world as it doesn't owe you shit, take on yourself from the past and present to create a better you in the future.
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Finally remember these two things: this may not happen overnight, or within a week, or within a month. Bullshit confidence is still confidence keep on believing until it's true. Lastly remember that no one gets the life they deserve but they definitely get the life they earn.
So if anyone out there is struggling with confidence, some sort of issue with consistency in their motivation, or anything else make a video for your future self and just stuff as much motivation and confidence into yourself. It's helped me throughout this week and I think it will help you....get motivated out there people I believe in you all you have to do is try.
Submitted January 30, 2017 at 06:38AM by azcard480 http://ift.tt/2kDstvc
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