I'm pretty poor but still have some money. Finished highschool, studied abroad a little, failed a year of uni but got a degree in the end, eventually married a normal guy.
But I also grew up abused by both parents. Got stalked as a pre-teen. Abusive relationship early 20ties.
My depression has been so bad at times that I couldn't even walk. My body was fine but I didn't have the strength to stand on my legs.
I can't sleep without meds. I struggle so hard with basic tasks like brushing my teeth.
But always pushing ahead with life. When I compare myself with my peers, I feel like a failure.
But if you look at how I am and feel, then it's fucking amazing that I'm even looking average from the outside!
What am I getting at?
Set high goals, sure. But also acknowlegde who you are and your past. Been a huge procrastinator for a decade? Depression? Bad habits? ADHD? Abuse? FUCKING CONGRATULATE YOURSELF FOR KICKING AND FLAILING AT LIFE AND NOT GIVING UP
Sometimes you deserve praise for working just 30 minutes. Sometimes you deserve praise for eating a fucking meal. Keep on fighting.
Submitted February 19, 2018 at 03:13AM by CLTY http://ift.tt/2FdUEeL
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